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11.17.2009

Are you a Hater?

Currently: K* natash & I are in the midst of getting this bad boy blog up & running again because we've definitely been slacking on our blog game. A lot has definitely changed, but things seem to be getting better in certain aspects.

Anyway, one thing that I seem to notice A LOT is people have a tendency to throw out the word "hater" constantly for no reason. Everyone has a tendency to think someone is hating on them, but why? What have you done that makes people hate on you? That word is thrown around too loosely for my liking and quite frankly to clear this shit up for some of you people that swear everyone "hatin" on you... did it ever occur to you that maybe you're just NOT liked? There's a difference. People may not like you for many reasons, it doesn't mean they are hating on you it just simply means you didn't rub them the right way & they dislike you for the things you do (mostly negative things). However, if you fall under the category of a person that everyone seems to like & then that one person from a distance scolds you for NO REASON. Congratulations, you have an "up and coming" hater. They never exchanged words with you, you probably don't even know who they are, but for whatever reason - they don't like you for many reasons that people probably WOULD like you for. Prepare for the slandering of your name & constant garbage that comes out of their mouth. That's what "Haters" do best. Not to mention Haters are VERY good at convincing people that they aren't haters. They'll give out all these fake ass reason why they don't like Person A... Person A will not have ANY recollection of the FALSE stories that the "hater" has made up. Congratulations, Hater... You have just become a CERTIFIED HATER & a Liar at that. Give yourself a pat on the back!

anyway, with that said... you can't assume people hate on you because they don't like you.. chances are you did something that turned them off causing them to dislike you NOT hate on you.

10.04.2009

Bitchassness is in the Air!

It's definitely been a minute since I've written on here, but getting this site back up is definitely in progress. So let's just get straight to the point.... There's some BITCHASSNESS I need to speak about... General Statements & if you take offense to either topic then maybe you're guilty....

1. Any girl that has the audacity to talk about other people & still be mad because they get talked about deserves to get smacked the fuck down. It's mind boggling that females can be so petty. Someone talks about them, they wild out -- but yet they doing the SAME thing to another group of females. Who gave you permission to do run your mouth loosely? Did you think that you do not deserve the same thing in return? It's called Karma, ladies. If you don't want people talking about you then keep your BEAKS closed. Don't give people a reason to talk about you either. You set yourself up for shit like that. Personally, i could care less & so should you. Who cares if people talk about you... let the haters hate... it's just that SIMPLE.... If you're mad about it then it's hitting a soft spot..... Why? Only thing I give anyone reason to be upset... if people are slandering your name with false rumors (ex. she messed with "so&so") <<< and its not true. those are false rumors that need to be addressed. Other petty shit like "that girl & her friends are ugly" ---- WHO CARES!?!?!?!!?. that's someone elses opinion of you. I sure as hell don't give a fuck. it's not that deep. stop looking for someone to "pop off" on & just live your life. Ladies, we all have a "tough" side.... ::applauds:: lets not get carried away & start acting like thugs ready to fight someone for some bull shit. Give me a break. Just sit back relax and breathe. Go get your hair done. Treat yourself to a mani/pedi & shut the hell up.

2. This is a special one to my "good guys" ... You get props for never wanting to cheat or play a girl & you get hella props for wanting to "give them the world," but what you DON'T get props for is all that crying & complaining your doing. And you gets NO LOVE if you're letting girls walk all over you. Personally, that whole nice guy movement is lame. Don't get me wrong... I don't want ANY nigga to beat my ass or disrespect me, but if I can't feel safe around your kind ass then what the fuck am I with you for? I just want someone thats a no bull shit kinda guy. He rides for his girl, but has a mean swagger & don't take shit from nobody. All that emotion isn't going to get you anywhere. It's just that SIMPLE. Don't make things more complicated then they should be. And please don't try to tell some girl that you know whats best for her. If its you... you may be wrong... don't play yourself... & don't try to force yourself on her either... you're liable to get your feelings hurt or fucked with. Be a man about your shit. it's 2009. they don't make females the same.


Real Recognize Real & Some of Y'all ain't looking familiar....
-Di.

9.22.2009

Same Shit - Different Day. HONESTLYYYYY!

Hellooooo Worlddd =] its been a longgggg time since I been on here I kept telling myself that I was going to come back on and start releasing some tension but I kept postponing because I wanted to change the page around a bit before I started to do so. BUT this simply can't wait bc I need to get some bullshit off my chest,excuse me if it doesn't make much sense.. i'm just venting right now but ..... ahem. OKAY. If there is one thing I hate more than anything is dumb bitches who like to stick their nose in other peoples business .. I hate girls who are unloyal to their friends and are so damned on getting attention they'll leave people they're cool with just so they can get their ego stroked. It don't make no sense. THAT SOUND STUPID TO MEEEEEE!! ugh but not only that they pretty much turn on you and have some slick shit to say about what you do when it doesn't have shit to do with her. I'm truly not the confrontational type but I have a big ass mouth that I have no problem using. So I'm going to take the time out to shout a special fuck you out to one of the most fake femalesI know. Not only is she fake but she's an attention whore that is thriving off of this bum nigga thats willing to smile at her and try to play nice with her simply to be spiteful... little does she know because she is oh so simple minded. She's become buddy buddy with one of the most manipulative dudes i've come across in life. So honesly since she's claiming him I wish her luck because just like he's played everybody else and popped shit about EVERYONE else he surrounds himself with. She'll be just another victim. Hahaha Trust me I know exactly what I'm talking about. But I'm not gonna go into detail because I have class in 5 hours. I know I'm being rather vague but I willtell a more in depth story later. I have to go in on that same bum nigga that started this whole situation up in the first place. [btw everytime I start talkin about dudes being broke and not having any real assets in life i think about that nicki minaj joint handstand "I can't stand bums, somethin bout his money make a nigga handsome" bahahaha] There's so much to be said about that silly son of a bitch... btw who still gets gassed that girls wanna have sex with them? oh yes dudes that get no pussy. Smfh. STOP LYIN ON YOUR DICK HOMEBOY MAN UPPPPP!!!But ummmm.. I really need to go now bc I'm just gonna keep going on and on soooo yea I'm sure some shit is gonna pop off sometime today so an update will be posted this evening if I don't end up getting arrested for doing some drastastic ish k smooches! <3
[[YOU KNOW YOU LOVE MEEEEEE! - k. NaTAsHA <3

4.25.2009

This "Chill" Movement.

So Last night was CRAZY & that's all I'm going to say about THAT one.

On to my topic of the day..... The definition of "CHILL" seems to be expanding these days. Chill to me means to "hang out" or "sit back & relax"... There really should be no other meaning for it, but these days dudes are taking it to a different level. Chill apparently means in the nicest way possible... "lets bone" or "can i smash?"... Deny it all you want fellas but I've been victimized with that whole "lets smash" bid. Face it... its a Real recognize Real movement... if you can't get on that level, than you won't ever be on my level.. Point Blank PERIOD! Nothing left to discuss. Just keep it 100. You wanna hit than let me know.. I respect honesty so much better than that foolish G that every dude seems to say. It's all the same thing, which is the absolute worst thing i've ever come across. It's an epidemic & it's time for it to stop. But anyway.. enough with all this writing.... I'm about to hop my ass in the shower again... and get ready to see what the night has in store for me.......... Real Recognize Real and some of yall aint looking familiar out there...

Lady Di

4.22.2009

Face It.... He's Just NOT that Into You....

It's been quite a while since I've posted... I have to say I've just been HELLA busy.. This past weekend went acceptionally well minus the fact that i got sick Saturday... smfh... Schools almost over.... yay & ney.... :-\... home for the whole summer? I'll pray i don't die... anyway... some short exerpts from "Hes Just Not that Into You" ... I'm sure girls can relate... and GUYS can too.. stop acting like a hard ass for once & admit when you're being bamboozled.... "Ladies is Pimps too"... lol.. Enjoy... Real Recognize Real & some of yall ain't looking familiar...
*Lady Di.

Chapter 1He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Asking You Out
because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out men find it very satisfying to get what they want if a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons, needs to take things slow, he will let you know immediately. He won't keep you guessing because he'll want to make sure you don't get frustrated and go away. don't let him trick you into asking you out men, for most part, like to pursue women an excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship." you are good enough to be asked out.


Chapter 2He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You
men know how to use the phone when you like someone, they just don't slip your mind you know they mean it when they actually do what they said they were going to do men are never too busy to get what they want if he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind if he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs you deserve a fucking phone call


Chapter 3He's Just Not That Into You Is He's Not Dating You
"hanging out" is not datinga man who's really into you is going to want you all to himselfbetter than nothing is not good enough for you!if you don't know where the relationship is going, it's okay to pull over and askthere's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone he's your boyfriend


Chapter 4He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Having Sex With You
when men like you, they want to touch you, alwaysif a man is not trying to undress you, he's just not that into youif you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppythere's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff


Chapter 5He's Just Not That Into You If He's Having Sex With Someone Else
there's never going to be a good excuse for cheatingcheating doesn't just "happen". It was planned and executed with the full knowledge that it could end your relationshipcheating is a complete betrayal of trust100% of guys polled said that they have never accidentally slept with anyone
Chapter 6He's Just Not That Into You If He Only Wants To See You When He's Drunk
if he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgment isn't impairedit doesn't count unless he says it when he's soberdrinking and drug use are not a path to one's innermost feelingsyou deserve to be with someone who doesn't have to get loaded to be around you


Chapter 7He's Just Not That Into You If He Doesn't Want To Marry You
love cures commitment phobiadon't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for youif you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?there's a guy out there who wants to marry you


Chapter 8He's Just Not That Into You If He's Breaking Up With You
"i don't want to go out with you" means just thatalways be classy. Never be crazya breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic onebreakup sex means you're still broken upcut him off. Let him miss you


Chapter 9He's Just Not That Into You If He's Disapppeared On You
sometimes you have to get closure all by yourselfthere's nothing worse than hving no answer. No answer is your answer.don't give him the chance to reject you againthere's no mystery-he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you


Chapter 10He's Just Not That Into You If He's Married (And Other Insane Variations Of Being Unavailable)
if you're not able to love fully, it's not really lovehe's marriedunless he's all yours, he's still hersdon't be that girl


Chapter 11He's Just Not That Into You If He's A Selfish Jerk, A Bully, Or A Really Big Freak
if you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happyyou are the catchlife is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with




SONG of the Day: Boyfriend # 2 - Pleasure P, download it, listen, & love it like I do...

4.09.2009

you know your mouth's a cage for your tongue if you just close your teeth!

THIS IS A PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT:

Let me edit this real quick just cause this is a general statement for anyone.
point blank period, anyone who got my name or any of my friends name in their mouth can seriously choke on their words because karmas a bitch.
i love people who hot shit up for no apparent reason & when you go to their face they tell you "nah yo i neva said that forreal" ---- as previously stated before I HATE liars. so do yourselves a favor if your gonna lie do it correctly.... it's crazy how people make themselves look bigger by simply passing out false rumors because they wanna make themselves look good.
As also stated previously, i know what i want & if i'm not going after you ---- it's for a reason.......... IM NOT INTERESTED? .....


seriously bump all the mess.
dramas overrated anyway.
im too grown for it.
real recognize real is what it comes down to.. and some of yall aint lookin familiar out there...
signing off,
lady d.

I Feel On Top Of The World

okay so i clearly have an issue with updating this blog. takes me a week to get on here mainly cuz i have class monday to wednesday like non stop and when i do have time i sleep in between lol. doesn't matter i'm here now.... heres an update since friday. oh gosh. got dressed up and spent the night in the city with my favorite people in the worldddddd! got RETARDED off the goose (grey goose is my enemy it gives me THE WORST hangovers so idk why i drank so much of it.. ohh prob cuz it was all free lmao) had alot of fun, stayed in bed allll day saturday and dragged myselff around for the rest of the night. sunday went to church and went out the breakfast with the fam - it was a really nice day so i was in a good mood. monday, tuesday, wednesday were school so nothing interesting with that really. its thursday and idk what i'm gonna be doing yet i'm sure something though. tmrw everyone is finally getting together and andy's having a party at his house so that should be alot of fun.... this is quite boring probably because for the first time in a while i don't have drama in my life. the one person that i was always upset about and complaining about has officially been DELETEDDDDDDDDD from my life as in no more crying, no more picking up the phone wanting to text or call, no more sitting around thinking about what i can do to make things better. NOTHING. there's no objections on my part about it... and i'm sure none on his since he could give a fuck less about anyone but himself. of course i think about him all the time cuz its not like i can just erase him out of my mind.... even though i'm trying. i've had nooo desire to speak to him and i honestly have nothing to say because though we had alot of amazing memories together and he was the only person that made me happy.... thats not who he is now and the person he is now makes me absolutely sick to my stomach. he's a scumbag (which is what he is named in my phone now) and that's the bottom line. his friends have rubbed off on him in the worst way possible and he doesn't seem to mind. so hey my motto is if you don't care, why should i? anyhow my hearts set on someone else...for now. we had a little somethin going on a couple months ago but it died off because of my desire to be with who is now known as scumbag. but since thats over might as well be around someone thats always happy to see me and doesn't put me in the worst mood ever. besides. i liked him WAAAAAAYY before (as in 8th grade) scumbag was even an image in my mind. he's gonna be home all weekend and we have dinner plans and such so we shall see where that takes us ;) anyway. that's all thats on my mind for now.... by the way. it's safe to say that this is the happiest i've felt in months. guess i just had to get rid of the bad seed now the flower can grow.

You Know You Love Me,
`K* NaTaSHa

4.08.2009

"But I can't Even Fight It, you make me so weak"

Okay So Obviously by the name of the Blog I'm on some lovey dovey type bull shit.
Let me just jot the shit I have on my mind real quick before my thoughts are interrupted by my father who's on his way to come get me and biffington.....

One Issue that I would like to address is an issue that I kind of addressed before, but clearly have yet to make myself clear to the oblivious ones. So here it goes... Short and Simple...

** IF I'M NOT MEETING YOU HALF WAY THAN GET OFF ME **
It's just that simple... I know what I want and I'm SICK and TIRED of people telling me WHAT I want - If i'm not putting in that 100 to get to you than its real obvious that I'm not as into you or I just don't care. Don't be offended because guys definitely play this same game so why the hell can't a girl?.... No point AT ALL to tell me that "I'm frontin" because I'm not... I'm just uninterested.


* If I don't call you, than I'm NOT interested


* If I avoid chillin' with you than I'm NOT interested


* If I ignore you all the time, guess what... NOT interested!


I know what I want and I like what I want..





So onto what i like :-) lol



soo there's this guy... lol that I'm into... been into him for a minute, don't know if he's feelin' me the same, but sooner or later i'm gonna find out.... --- The End -- lmao... Song of the Day kids: Must Be Love by Cassie... Shit goes hard
REAL recognize REAL and some of yall ain't looking familiar...

Lady Di.


4.07.2009

The Male is the Head, but the Woman is the NECK

* Think About The Significance in the Title of my Blog *
Read it and UNDERSTAND what I'm saying......

Today, there's no real introduction lets get down with the get down.
Here's my thought of the day:

Of all guys i've talked to i've never been told what to do and who to talk to. I'd be damned if I let that one happen. Then i come here & someone really had the audacity to tell me that i can't talk to anyone else and blahze blah. You're not my boyfriend, so who the hell are you? I'm writing about this now because it just crossed my mind of shit that really irks a nerve. I barely listen to my parents what in your right mind would make you think I would listen to you. Fuck all that "male dominating" bull shit...... It's 2009 baby, times are CHANGING. I find it absolutely ridiculous that people have the mentality that you keep "shorty" at home, but can go with your boys and have a grand old time, lmao.. get the f--- outta here.... It's just annoying to really have someone tell you what to do, I hate being bossed around let along by someone that has no great significance in my life. You're wasting your time and my time with all that "don't do this, don't do that" b.s . . . . chill out & let me breathe...........Thank you...

Subject matter 2 that gets on my nerves
is this statement & excuse my language, but i say it how I hear it
"Pussy has no face" --------- Are you kidding me?
Fellas. I'm gonna need for you to start setting some standards for yourselves and stop having sex with every girl --- you are NOT lil wayne, you can't do it and i'm sure Weezy doesn't do it either. hm. Stop messing with every girl just because she throws herself at you. Just because she does it doesn't mean that she's giving you anything... she could just be flirting... I'm not telling y'all to be shallow, but there's no reason why you should be loose with your shit. STDs and other sexually trasmitted diseases DO exist still... Smh ... I can't even begin to express how annoying it is to see these dudes messing with every girl no matter how ugly, pretty, fat, skinny, or thicke she is. SET SOME STANDARDS FOR YOURSELVES. Just like some girls have standards for themselves, so should you... point blank period....


Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't lookin' familiar out there....
Lady Di.
Song of the Day: Every Girl - Lil Wayne

4.06.2009

Take It Easy.

Let me start off by stating that this weekend was definitely poppin!
Thursday did something light with the girls & my fellas, me and my soulie took over Manhattan on Friday night, and Saturday took over New York once again. . . It was definitely an interesting weekend had. . . But moving on to business....

I can't stand persistent dudes. Oh man. It irks me to the fullest to have a person on my back so much. It's just so annoying to have to tell someone that you're really not feelin' them after you told them that same thing 2 times before. If you asked me yesterday what makes you think tomorrow is going to be something different? It's mind boggling to me that some dudes just don't get it. Than you have the dude that you haven't spoken to you in days or weeks and they still hittin' you up as if you guys really still talk?.... lmao.. once again.. I'm Mind Boggled!!!!!!! Just relax and if a girl is interested in you she'll meet you the other 50 that you trynna put in. There's no reason why any dude or even girl should have to put 100% effort in trynna bag someone up when they clearly are just not interested. I don't know that's just me. . . . . Anyway, I'm in the library.. Just wanted to jot that down real quick, Goodnight & of course I leave you with my song of the day : Too Grown For That (Remix) - Tamia featuring Jim Jones


Real Recognize Real - & some of y'all ain't looking familiar.
Lady Di

4.03.2009

"The tragedy of machismo is that a man is never quite man enough."

Okay so i had an extremely drama filled week that i honestly could have gone without. It brought out feelings of anger and hate that i never knew i even had inside of me. Someone I was speaking so highly of and I loved so much showed me a side i never knew existed. With that being said... this one is dedicated to all the males out there.......

Don't get me wrong, I like being single no strings and serious emotions attached you can go and come as you please without having to answer to anyone or worry about how they may feel. ( this is probably going to be jumbled thoughts because so much is going on in my head. so bare with me..) But because i'm single does that make it okay for me to run around having sex with every person that looks my way and smiles? absolutely not. thats dirty. So what i'm trying to figure out is why is it that guys think its okay to stick their manhood into any female that gives them five minutes of their time? I recently heard someone refer to themself as a ladies man and i laughed really hard because this male trys sooo hard to get peoples attention and when they do give him attention he takes it and runs with it. he was clearly fishing for attention from females so idk how that makes him a ladies man because he's not getting the attention from females without trying. so pathetic. but recently found out alot of things about someone i used to date and it honestly makes me sick to my stomach. leaving clubs with strange females and having sex with them? meeting girls off the internet and having sex with them? having relations with the same girl your best friend did? so disgusting. makes me feel like an idiot because i date such a scumbag that for all i know could have been doing all these things behind my back. not that i'd feel bad because he wasn't the only person i was seeing.... ha anywhooo. all in all what i'm curious to know is why is it that guys think its okay to have sex with a bunch of different females, especially ones they just met. its not cute in any way shape or form. i don't wanna sound like i'm bashing men -- i'm not because it takes two to tango. Females in 2009....... i don't even know what to say they're just wildin out and acting like straight up sluts. i mean i've had my share of oops maybe i shouldn't have done that moments but NOT like these broads nowadays. disgustingggggg! i can't even begin to wrap my brain around why these ladies are doing this to themselves. it is their fault that these guys feel they can do whatever they want and add multiple notches under their belt. some people are a lost cause but all i can say is i do not tolerate sleaze balls, man whores, scum bags, sluts, or people that have sex with so many people their chance of having an std are higher than acquiring the common cold.... speaking of STDs..... lmfaoo NA let me not go in right now because i'd def start throwing names out and feelings would get hurt or i'd get called a "hater" hahahah PATHETIC!!!!!!!!!!

oh... and since we're on the topic of males. let me touch on this real quick cuz i can go on for dayssss about this topic because i been hearing it waaay tooo much for my liking. "Grown Ass Man". Being over the age of 18 or 21 (whatever your preference) does not make you as "Grown Ass Man" --- it makes you an adult. To me - a "Grown Ass Man" is someone like my father. Working a full time job, can cook, clean, and dress himself. Owns a nice house and paid for all the furnishings himself. Can pay ALL his bills on time. Can afford multiple thousand dollar vacations a year. Can buy out a bar if he wanted to. NOW NOW NOW. YOU ARE NOT A "GROWN ASS MAN" If you don't have a job, you still live with your mama, your car can hardly get you across the state of new jersey, your boys and/or your girl pays your way or pays half everytime you go out, you have to return clothes to the store you bought last night just so you can afford an outfit for tonight. You over drew your bank account and you don't even have enough money to pay the over draw fee..... oh man let me stop because I can go on for DAYSSSSS. Till the day I move out of my parents house and i have myself a full time job i will not consider myself to be grown - i am an adult that has responsibilites in life, but i am not grown. I still heavily rely on my parents for things and I'm not afraid to say it. Don't try to get big with me and tell me you're a "Grown Ass Man" cuz i'll cool ya ass down if you think you hot shit.....

With that all being said -- its time to get dressed and hit the mall for a bangin dress for a night in the cityy with my favorite people in the world. I'll be back Sunday to tell all about it... smooches!

You Know You Love Me!
`K*nAtASHa

Scandalous Hoe University

Biffington and I killed it with the stanky leg last night, lmao. We were definitely going in with that shit. . It's always fun though when I'm with my peoples (Alexa, Yan, Eb, Dom, and Daniel) because we just don't give a fuck. But anyway, the title of this blog is credited to Dominic..He gave me the idea -- so shout outs to you. On to more important business..................


This is A Public Service Announcement:

Let me tell you something about these girls now a days. Now I've done a lot of growing as a person and have learned that I could get along with pretty much anybody that I just give the time or day to. I don't have to be your best friend or your friend, but I'm pretty easy going. However, there are particular girls that I really can't stand and/or deal with and that's loosey gooseys. I stepped into a whore brothel and was just taken back at the shit that I saw. Girls have NO shame now a days it's crazy. Hoes with boyfriends messing with every dude and their friends, hoes giving the "HEADIE WOP" to numerous amounts of dudes in one day. Like it that really sanitary? And did you ever stop to think about how you have just portrayed yourself or do you know and just not care? It's sad that girls do this kind of shit for attention. Well... you definitely got it. ::SmFh::.. no morals, no standards --- just quick to get yours and call it a day... and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it, but handle your shit with CLASS & stop leaving your shit out in the open for people to see... You're just making yourself look even trashier than you all ready are. True Story.. I have so much shit to say right now, but I can't even begin to formulate my words except this is why I don't run with many girls. They'll give me a bad name and trust me people have all ready tried to run loosely with my name and i'll be damned if any dusty ass girls are gonna bring me down with them. lmao... Anyway, Anonymous says " 95% of the girls on this campus are hoes" lmao. and well.............. it is what it is............ You can be a hoe if that's your prerogative, but when people run around with your name you really can't say shit about it. Think about it.. Moving On to something a little lighter....

Dom says "Light skin dudes on tv are starting to really embarrass and give other light skin dudes a bad rap. Q (making the band)...... chill the fuck out and stop crying over everything. He wildin' out way too much for nothing and he's starting to make light skin dudes look like punks. ohhh andddd Blue from G's to Gents.... a little too emotional too" ---


And..... Now for the INFAMOUS song of the Day.....
Mr.Vegas --- She's a Hoe * Listen to it and Love it Like I do *




Real Recognize Real * & some of y'all ain't looking familiar out there...
Lady Di.

4.01.2009

"I own the Swagger Market and you, you just a bag boy"

Not much to say today, but I never understood why today was called April Fools day... How come it's not the first of any other month... why april?... I mean I really don't care, but just a question that popped into my head as I hear and watch people play pranks on everyne else.... Why are you really doing that? As if you don't play jokes on people any other day... Why make a special day for it?.... ahh * whatever. Anyway, that's all for today --- I think unless something spectacular crosses my mind and I decide to rant about it --- Until then, I leave you with my song of the day.. Uptown by Drake featuring Bun B and Weezy. * Listen to it and Love it like I do.


Real Recognize Real and some of y'all aint looking familiar...
Lady Di

p.s --- Real World Reunion comes on 2night... maybe you'll see me and kandyce on tv! ;-)

3.31.2009

"You was my hoe tonight And I got a nigga waitin up for me at home, so Goodnight..."

Today I feel like doing a little airing out right now because I'm feeling some type of way and anyone who knows me or anything about me will know exactly who or what I'm talking about. So HERE IT GOES allow me to get on my ruthless and obnoxious shit for a minute.... One of the things that I really can't stand are BITCH NIGGAS. Now you walk around here with your head to the sky and your nose up at everyone like YOU ARE THAT NIGGA!! and personally I think your a little on the crazy side if you really think you are just that dude. Sweetheart, I lowered my standards to talk to you... I've met and talked to flyer dudes than you...pause... you're NOT even fly!!!! lmao.. soo FYI it's nothing to me if we do stop talking. I could actually care less... cause as far as I'm concerned I don't hit you up or find any way possible to contact you... TRUTHFULLY if you weren't always on my ass about speaking to you I WOULD PROBABLY WALK RIGHT PAST YOU. oh wait............... I do walk right past you... don't i? like you ain't shit don't i? ohh yeahhhh... OKAY... You walk around like the shit you do really affects me or is really like a secret? lmao... Sweetheart, your shit is ALL out in the open...So why lie? Didn't you get the memo that I know and find out everything? Smh at you for thinking that you were actually smarter than me. It's over for that one.

-- Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't looking familiar out here....

* Lady Di.

(Song of the Day: Computer Love by Fab) -- YES for the 2ndtime!!!




3.30.2009

Honey Just Jumped Ship And Left The Captain ...

waaaatuppp?! wassss happeninn?! gonna make this a fairly brief post cuz i wanna hop in the showerrr. OKAY.weekend recap -- thursday: as i said before i went to chris' house with the girls had a good time downing shots & beers for no good reason haha. friday: spent the night with my boyfriend aka dionna lol got mad free samples offline and laid around my house like bums just cuz we felt like it. saturday: went up to seton hall and saw my favoritess had a prettty good time can't complain. sunday: got my hair done FINALLYYYY. aaaaand thats about it...

burning question of the day ... WHY HAVE I BEEN GETTING MY LIFE SHITTED ON MY MALES LATELY ?! its making me so angry lololololol seems like everyone just thinks they can do whatever they want and not expect me to have an attitude. ughhhh! havent talked to one dude in hmmm three weeks cuz he just fell off the face of the planet bothered be at first but im not stressin it anymore. another one calls me and i ALWAYSSSS seem to miss his calls and when i call back he doesnt answer then i dont get another call for like two days so its like phone tag. anotherrr i was kinda hooked up with-- but we talked via facebook & text until we finally hung out the other day and he works like nobodys business so i never talk to him so its almost like hes not in my life. can't catch a break man but its whatever cuz my days of chasing people around are ovaaaa. on a lighter note a special someone has made a quick reappearance in my life...............via text message? lmfaoo soo sad thats what its come down to but its better than nothing because even though everytime we talk it ends in mild bloodshed and hurtful words--- i still love him more than anythingg and he makes me super duper happyyy!

ummmmmm class was wackkk today as usual and i def failed my quiz so thats a bummer. but im super excited for this week because it holds alot of potential to make me smile alot cuz i'm getting to spend time with the people that make me more than happyyyyy. yay. but thats about it for now. i have some quick studying to do. then pistachio ice cream & hoursss worth of tv shows on dvr have my name written alllllllllllll over it =D. farewell alll. you know you love me
-- k* NatAsHaaa

"My Privacy about the ONLY thing I want back"

I don't think I really need to do an introduction because y'all all ready know what it is so let me make this real quick.... First of all like I said I was gonna talk about these little raging hoes in the making. Little girls dance like they grown... Okay... It's all fun and games until something happens.... And truthfully it's not even the girl's fault... It's their weak ass parents that don't take initiative to correct their children when they're being a little to raunchy and TRASH like... I'll be damned if my little cousin goes around dancing like she ain't got no common sense to put that shit on you tube... that's a real joke.. Stop teaching your daughters how to be certified hoes and stop amping them up and saying what they're doing is cute... Because watching that fuckery on you tube... is dis-gus-ting. ANYWAY moving right along.....

I just wanted to take my time out to say something. One thing I can't stand is my business being put out for the public eye to see or hear. If you're running loosely with my name like a headless chicken I suggest you chill out because best believe Karma is a bitch & I can be real malicious. I'm not sending out any threats or anything, but this is just what it is. I hate HATE HATEE liars especially bad liars. All your shit is blatantly out in the open and you still deny? That's crazy to me, that has to be some kind of joke. And the funniest part about people that lie is that they don't even realize that they're lying anymore. They are immune to it like its malaria.... They have convinced themselves that they aren't lying.... and personally..... that's straight up SICK!!!! And what kills me the most is that I'm a pretty low key girl. I'm not in everything and I keep my circle REAL tight just because you can never really be too careful with the people you surround yourself with.... So the fact that I have to hear my name really mind boggles me... Just SHUT UPP!!!!!!! --- And here's a little tip: When you blame someone for something you know they didn't do... You're blaming them because you're guilty for doing it.... And with that said....
Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't looking familiar out there...
-Lady Di.

3.29.2009

Scatter brained... Last night, Karma, What Provokes you? --- Fast Asses to be continued....

I did some G *ish last night, but that's definitely not gonna make it on this bloggington so I guess your mind can wander if you really care about what I did.... Anyhow, the soulie made a reappearance into my life which I'm really happy about because I missed her ohh so dearly.... I haven't seen her since the Real World Reunion... (ohh. aha. Watch out for us as we make our t.v appearance in the audience! lol) Okay... down to the nitty gritty....

Biffington and I were just talking and she said "I wonder what provokes people to do the things that they do.." She told me I should write about it and hopefully get some responses soo... Here I am writing about it ---- Biffington and Isha both said that people do things that they do just because they know they can, for revenge, love, or pleasure, and even to feel a sense of power (control).. And I definitely do agree that people will do some silly ass shit for love, as well as to feel like they have the upper hand... I for one am a firm believer of Karma, therefore, if I can throw something in your face and get away with it best believe I will... no question about it... That's just how it goes.... Speaking of Karma.... lmao... Let me just touch on that real quick... Anyone who doesn't believe in it should reanalyze it. Everything happens for a reason, yes... however... if you look into detail about certain things that have happened sometimes it could be seen as karma... Karma comes to bad people or people that think they have the upper hand, but indeed they do not and shit just hit the fan...(i don't know if that made sense, but if it didn't rock with me for a minute)... "what goes around comes around" and if you running around here like your on top of the world you will fall and bust your ass.... and you know what?.. I'll laugh.. stop thinkin' you run shit and karma will be gentle on your soul.. lol... i think i'm rambling right now because i have s0 much to say, but my thoughts are scattered... Soo im gonna start to conclude!!! --- song of my day -- Computer Love by Fabolous -- Get on it..
and I wanted to leave you guys with something that makes me really angry..
These little girls these days are getting way to fresh for me.... And the worst part is their parents allow this stuff to happen!!! HELLOOOOOOOOO wake the hell up... you're about to turn your child into a raging floozy... SMH! It's disgraceful. --- to be continued about these fast ass chickadees... thats my next topic... it's over... i'm going in!!! Stay tuned!




Real Recognize Real and some of y'all aint lookin' familiar out there....
-Lady Di.

3.28.2009

Give me the keys and I WILL drive.... WTF?

One thing that has actually crossed my mind is how some people could actually come to my face and tell me that things have to go my way all the time and blah blah blah meanwhile it's really me taking some initiative to do something --- that's what happens when you give someone the wheel, you're putting them in charge & if that's not how you wanted shit to be then take some initiative yourself and make moves because i'll go with the flow and plan as long as it makes sense. However, I hate that people will come to my face and tell me a whole bunch of bull shit about how I have to be the boss when in ACTUALITY each and every time the "keys and the car" are given to me.. so what did you expect me to do with it? Anyway, shit like that makes me mad because sometimes people try to make you look bad and try to make it seem like you're the bad guy when once again in ACTUALITY you're playing the role and position that people have basically handed you. If they didn't want you to be the driver than they should have made themselves the driver and put your ass in the passenger side or back seat. It's not that serious. I have no problem riding shottie once in a while. That's the stuff that actually pisses me off. Don't try to make me look or feel bad just because you can't make your mind up about the way you want shit to go. Oh oh oh! and another thing that annoys the shit out of me is when you're set on doing something and your plans get pushed totally to the bottom of the tank... Are you kidding me? I'm grown I could have done all this shit BY MYSELF... why? because in case you didn't know, I'm grown!!! But it is what it is.... My point is just a general statement.... If you find yourself constantly letting someone else drive the car and you feel like they always think they run shit................. WELL than let's THINK about that for a minute............ You're clearly letting them have the upperhand if your trying to follow what they're doing. Don't try to make them look bad because you're the one that does it all the time ain't no point in trying to make it seem like that person gave themselves the leadership role..... blame yourself for giving them the car, the keys, and the wheel. You put them in that position and put yourself in the passenger side. ---- and with that said...... REAL RECOGNIZE REAL ... some of yall ain't lookin familiar out there


-Lady Di.

SONG OF THE DAY: INTUITION BY KERI HILSON
(LISTEN TO IT. ALL TRUTH IS TIED TO IT.)

3.27.2009

Dust Yourself Off And Try Again

Hey hey hey. I was on a super brief hiatus but i'm back. I am currently out of a laptop so it's kinda hard to keep up. I haven't been up to much lately went out last night to Chris' house with my girls and had fun catching up with everyone since we never get to see one another. That's about it... but down to the nitty gritty of what's on my mind.
Anyone that knows me, knows I am a sucker for love. Yeah the whole addicted to kissing and hugging touching and rubbing type deal lol. I had it once upon a time ago and miss it dearlyyy. I only been in love once.. at least i think it was love.. hmm. Not going into details on that but needless to say things didn't quite work out the way I wanted it to. I messed up.....badly and I tried to right my wrongs but some people aren't as forgiving as I expected them to be. in the end LIFE GOES ON and i'm a better person now than I was a few months ago because I now have recognized my flaws and are slowly but surely working on them to impress the new mr. right ... whomever that may be. I've been dating around lately thinking it wouldn't be so hard to find a guy to hold me down and treat me like i'm supposed to be treated.........well as you all may know i was WRONG. I met some keepers but things didn't work out because they were so convinced i was living in the past which [i kind of am but i think i deserve ALOT of credit because i've moved 75 steps forward closer to 100 of erasing my past] and the rest just kind of feel off but for the most part...all I can say is wow. Some of these dudes either have more drama in their life than a 16 year old girl with 10 possible babies fathers or are straight up legit STALKERS. Jeeeeeeeeez. I'm 19 years old I never have and never will have a "man" keeping tabs on me all hours of the day by blowingggg up my phone, monitoring who I take pics with, who I go out with etc. Naaaa son none of that! I have a mother and father that do enough of it I don't need another person keeping tabs on me. I kind of have a bad habit of when i get turned off or i'm just plain uninterested I drop people like hot potatoes and NEVER answer their calls or texts. Maybe that's why they continue to call me cuz i haven't properly dismissed them but come on people lets be real : if i haven't answered you in more than a month WHY ARE YOU STILL CALLING ME?! i didn't answer a month ago and i'm not gonna answer now ughhhh. what have i done so wrong to meet these fools? But whatever that isn't gonna stop me from keeping my eyes wide for the next possible honey. Keri Hilson said it best in Knock You Down "sometimes love comes around and it knocks you down just get back up when it knocks you down" and that's exactly what i intend upon doing. don't know when i'll have the time to do so since i'm apparently the live in babysitter in this house. without a doubt everytime i want to go out and actually do something REALLY fun my parents have a million plans and shut me down when I tell them what's up for the night ughh. for instance one of my male friends just texted me and let me know that their having an event at Catch 22 in the city and i was welcome to come. Am I going? Of course not! I have a 13 year old boy to monitor. I just want my old life back where I can come and go as I please! I really need to get my shit together and pull straight A's this semester to raise my GPA so i can transfer out of community college ASAP cuzzzzz the partial parental lock is killin me majorly!!! All in all the moral of this entire scatter brained blog entry is dust yourself off and try again cuz i know i'm not the only one strugglin in some way or another. for me -- that applies heavily in the love department and the life department because both haven't been lookin too bright and shiny as of late. . . but that's all for now i'm starving so i'm about to make some poppin ass pasta [ yummm - that was for you di! lol] i'll probably be back on later since i'll be home doing NOTHINGGGGGGGG. [ thanks mommy & daddy ] -- later kids.
* You know you love me -k* NaTaSHA

To Get Respect .. You Gotta Give It *

Good Mornington. It's a little early so just bare with me for a minute as I get my thoughts together. . . Lets see - I'm going to keep it brief that last night I had a fun time with my friends, we haven't really partied like that together in a long time. --- Okay i'm done talking about that

One thing that I notice these days is the amount of respect guys have for females. It's shameful to say that these days they really don't respect women like they should. Some ladies portray themselves in a disgraceful manner and get treated like dirt. Other ladies portray themselves like they should and still get disrespected...... What's the reasoning behind all of this gentleman? Stop treating women like they are "smuts" and maybe all girls won't think that every guy is the exact same, which in fact I'm starting to believe is semi true until I meet someone that doesn't have the same mentality as every other guy. I mean don't get it twisted, I'm not really generalizing guys per-say.... BUT it is kind of weird that i've come across a good 3-6 good guys out of the whole male species.. The others are a little too blunt for my liking and don't get that twisted either I like straightfwd people, but there is a certain way you talk to people and saying "yoooo when you gon' let me smash" at least in MY view isn't going to get you anywhere...... lol in actuality I think I would actually laugh in the young man's face... stuff like that doesn't intrigue me.... My mother didn't raise no fool & i'm not going to walk around settling for some goon that has no manners, respect, or any quality even worth entertaining. That would be settling for less & girlss.......... everyone deserves a prince charming and when you get him make sure you hold on to him & don't take advantage of him.... Love him and show him the same respect as long as he's returning the same love and respect..... and girls... if your man or potential man... is a raggity ass dude not doing anything with his lfe calling you every name in the book.. I suggest y'all take 2 steps back & kick that nigga to the curb... It's over for that. Respect comes a long way and to get respect you gotta give it.... Anyway -- time to shower -- possibily blog later -- soo much to do & very little hours in the day to do it all. Sometimes I wish I was Superwoman!

* Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't looking familiar out here

Lady D.

3.25.2009

Condoms? Morning After Pills? Whats Goodington?







I didn't plan on blogging today, but I have some shit that's been on my mind since 10 AM this morning that I really feel needs to be put out there.This by no means is to really disrespect anyone or offend anyone it's just a simple observation that I made. Ladies, why are you all getting pregnant? I don't get it. Chicks are 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 having babies... I just don't understand. Most of you aren't ready to be moms and you know it so why are you waiting 4 months into pregnancy to get an abortion? Better yet. WHY get the abortion when you have other options like... using a condom, birth control, or morning after pill? I don't get it. Then you have the girls that wanna keep their babies, have them, and still party at the clubs like they don't have responsibilities at home. Sorry, but once you poppin' out kids those days should be over, unless of course it's a job like those people that promote parties. Anyway, than you have the young females that have sex after sex and get pregnant like 3 times and abort that poor child 3 fucking times. That's a joke right? What if your mother aborted your ass? Point being, Stop killing babies. I'm getting so heated right now because girls are acting real dumb these days. What the fuck do you have a brain for if you're not gonna use it? I'd rather you abort a baby that's barely developed even though I'm against it all together. It's crazy the things girls do and put themselves through & then expect people to feel sorry for them?.... ::shakes head:: not me. Anyway, i'm not bashing all pregnant girls and such --- a good friend of mine is my age with a beautiful daughter, who is MY goddaughter & I love the both of them very much... She's precious... My friend is also not shaking her ass in the club or wasting her time doing stupid shit. She's actually taking care of her responsibilty. Young mothers like that I respect so much and give them major props. The others on the otherhand, shame on you for only thinking about your damn selves and not making smart decisions. I understand times are hard and everyone has a reason for doing what they do, but be smart about it & certain problems wouldn't rise. I don't know that's just me.... Anyway, I'm in this weak ass Art History class... Signing Off ----
* Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't looking familiar *

- Lady D.

3.24.2009

Who's Real - Jadakiss & Swizz Beats


okay not only is that me.. lol BUT the quote says... "who are you to judge the life that i live? I know that I'm not perfect and I don't try to be but before you start pointing fingers make sure your hands are clean..." The quote pretty much speaks for itself, but i'm sick and tired of people putting their input somewhere that it's not needed.. for example i absolutely hate when people call someone out on something, but they're guilty for being the same way or acting the same.... JUST BECAUSE your shit's not exposed DOESN'T MEAN that you're not guilty for it.... You just haven't been aired out yet.... I Hate HATE HATE girls who call other girls a hoe.... meanwhile.......... you had sex with everyone and their daddys.... Just because you think people don't know your a fast ass floozy doesn't clear your name from being put in the "Hoe Category"... and can we stop calling people hoes and shit when you clearly have NO idea what their about or who their boning... No need to drag someone else's name in the mud just because your name spells out DIRTY!! I'm not pointing my fingers anywhere in particular.. (lol).. but it was just a thought that I had when I actually saw the quote... People in general are always judging or prejudging people (I must say i've been guilty of it a couple of times before) however.... that's why you get to know people... stop smiling in peoples faces and hating them behind their back... it doesn't make you a real ass person... it just makes you fake as hell.... I don't know... Correct me if I'm wrong I'm open for criticism, but truthfully.. I think I'm pretty clear & right about this shit... But anyway... I think I'm done for the day... If anything else decides to cross my mind - I'll probably add on to this shit..... WHO KNOWS?.... Biffington just walked in the room.. she's probably gonna yell at me for blogging... lmao.. ** Real Recognize Real & Some of y'all Ain't looking familiar Out there ** -- Signing off -- Lady D.


Thats biffington to the left & kandyce to the right...

Oh hey.. that's KanDi Again.. <3>

Hello World

welcome to the obnoxious world of kandyce and diandra! you could either get with it or get rolled ovaa. so this is your chance to exit.......... still here? good cuz i'm sure throughout this we'll be taking you for the ride of your life so get ready lol. like di said this is our first blog so its not so poppin yet cuz we honestly don't have the patience to sit here at 12 in the morning and try to figure it out right now - well at least i don't cuz i'm ohh soo tired and stillll have lots to do. wompers. we honestly are very nice girls but we are sometimes called "Mean Girls" probably because we don't stand for people trying act like they're somethin that their not and trying to make me feel like i'm inferior to them. my mother taught me better than that and she also taught me that i have a mouth and if i don't like something don't hesitate to open it.... with tact. the tactful part didn't stick so well cuz i tell it like it is when it is whether you like it or not. hence the fact i'm single and i have about five people i could truly call my friends. haha. but at least i know the few that i have will ride for me and die for me just as i am. anyway too much to do and no time. catch you tmrw - you know you love meee. K* nATaSHa

3.23.2009

Allow us to Introduce Ourselves

Oh..Hey thats us! KanDi or Kandyce and Diandra * This is clearly our FIRST blog and we're still trying to work out some kinks so be patient young ones. This first blog is really just to test everything out because we were definitely lost little souls trying to figure everything out. lol. At least we got the most important part downpacked? Anyway.... We are really nice people. Show us the same respect you want & they'll be no problems. We're not phony so we expect anyone and everyone around us to keep it 110% Otherwise... we'll put you in your place A-SAP.
Anyway, this isn't really a bashing first entry so I guess i'm done.... Kandyce will probably write some shit after me or whatever she wants.. maybe even take this one day and write a new one? lmaooo (sike na).. Anyway, going for a walk with the girl that didn't wanna be down with our blogg movement... * Byeeeeeeeee! *