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4.25.2009

This "Chill" Movement.

So Last night was CRAZY & that's all I'm going to say about THAT one.

On to my topic of the day..... The definition of "CHILL" seems to be expanding these days. Chill to me means to "hang out" or "sit back & relax"... There really should be no other meaning for it, but these days dudes are taking it to a different level. Chill apparently means in the nicest way possible... "lets bone" or "can i smash?"... Deny it all you want fellas but I've been victimized with that whole "lets smash" bid. Face it... its a Real recognize Real movement... if you can't get on that level, than you won't ever be on my level.. Point Blank PERIOD! Nothing left to discuss. Just keep it 100. You wanna hit than let me know.. I respect honesty so much better than that foolish G that every dude seems to say. It's all the same thing, which is the absolute worst thing i've ever come across. It's an epidemic & it's time for it to stop. But anyway.. enough with all this writing.... I'm about to hop my ass in the shower again... and get ready to see what the night has in store for me.......... Real Recognize Real and some of yall aint looking familiar out there...

Lady Di

4.22.2009

Face It.... He's Just NOT that Into You....

It's been quite a while since I've posted... I have to say I've just been HELLA busy.. This past weekend went acceptionally well minus the fact that i got sick Saturday... smfh... Schools almost over.... yay & ney.... :-\... home for the whole summer? I'll pray i don't die... anyway... some short exerpts from "Hes Just Not that Into You" ... I'm sure girls can relate... and GUYS can too.. stop acting like a hard ass for once & admit when you're being bamboozled.... "Ladies is Pimps too"... lol.. Enjoy... Real Recognize Real & some of yall ain't looking familiar...
*Lady Di.

Chapter 1He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Asking You Out
because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out men find it very satisfying to get what they want if a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons, needs to take things slow, he will let you know immediately. He won't keep you guessing because he'll want to make sure you don't get frustrated and go away. don't let him trick you into asking you out men, for most part, like to pursue women an excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship." you are good enough to be asked out.


Chapter 2He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You
men know how to use the phone when you like someone, they just don't slip your mind you know they mean it when they actually do what they said they were going to do men are never too busy to get what they want if he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind if he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs you deserve a fucking phone call


Chapter 3He's Just Not That Into You Is He's Not Dating You
"hanging out" is not datinga man who's really into you is going to want you all to himselfbetter than nothing is not good enough for you!if you don't know where the relationship is going, it's okay to pull over and askthere's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone he's your boyfriend


Chapter 4He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Having Sex With You
when men like you, they want to touch you, alwaysif a man is not trying to undress you, he's just not that into youif you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppythere's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff


Chapter 5He's Just Not That Into You If He's Having Sex With Someone Else
there's never going to be a good excuse for cheatingcheating doesn't just "happen". It was planned and executed with the full knowledge that it could end your relationshipcheating is a complete betrayal of trust100% of guys polled said that they have never accidentally slept with anyone
Chapter 6He's Just Not That Into You If He Only Wants To See You When He's Drunk
if he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgment isn't impairedit doesn't count unless he says it when he's soberdrinking and drug use are not a path to one's innermost feelingsyou deserve to be with someone who doesn't have to get loaded to be around you


Chapter 7He's Just Not That Into You If He Doesn't Want To Marry You
love cures commitment phobiadon't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for youif you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?there's a guy out there who wants to marry you


Chapter 8He's Just Not That Into You If He's Breaking Up With You
"i don't want to go out with you" means just thatalways be classy. Never be crazya breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic onebreakup sex means you're still broken upcut him off. Let him miss you


Chapter 9He's Just Not That Into You If He's Disapppeared On You
sometimes you have to get closure all by yourselfthere's nothing worse than hving no answer. No answer is your answer.don't give him the chance to reject you againthere's no mystery-he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you


Chapter 10He's Just Not That Into You If He's Married (And Other Insane Variations Of Being Unavailable)
if you're not able to love fully, it's not really lovehe's marriedunless he's all yours, he's still hersdon't be that girl


Chapter 11He's Just Not That Into You If He's A Selfish Jerk, A Bully, Or A Really Big Freak
if you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happyyou are the catchlife is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with




SONG of the Day: Boyfriend # 2 - Pleasure P, download it, listen, & love it like I do...

4.09.2009

you know your mouth's a cage for your tongue if you just close your teeth!

THIS IS A PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT:

Let me edit this real quick just cause this is a general statement for anyone.
point blank period, anyone who got my name or any of my friends name in their mouth can seriously choke on their words because karmas a bitch.
i love people who hot shit up for no apparent reason & when you go to their face they tell you "nah yo i neva said that forreal" ---- as previously stated before I HATE liars. so do yourselves a favor if your gonna lie do it correctly.... it's crazy how people make themselves look bigger by simply passing out false rumors because they wanna make themselves look good.
As also stated previously, i know what i want & if i'm not going after you ---- it's for a reason.......... IM NOT INTERESTED? .....


seriously bump all the mess.
dramas overrated anyway.
im too grown for it.
real recognize real is what it comes down to.. and some of yall aint lookin familiar out there...
signing off,
lady d.

I Feel On Top Of The World

okay so i clearly have an issue with updating this blog. takes me a week to get on here mainly cuz i have class monday to wednesday like non stop and when i do have time i sleep in between lol. doesn't matter i'm here now.... heres an update since friday. oh gosh. got dressed up and spent the night in the city with my favorite people in the worldddddd! got RETARDED off the goose (grey goose is my enemy it gives me THE WORST hangovers so idk why i drank so much of it.. ohh prob cuz it was all free lmao) had alot of fun, stayed in bed allll day saturday and dragged myselff around for the rest of the night. sunday went to church and went out the breakfast with the fam - it was a really nice day so i was in a good mood. monday, tuesday, wednesday were school so nothing interesting with that really. its thursday and idk what i'm gonna be doing yet i'm sure something though. tmrw everyone is finally getting together and andy's having a party at his house so that should be alot of fun.... this is quite boring probably because for the first time in a while i don't have drama in my life. the one person that i was always upset about and complaining about has officially been DELETEDDDDDDDDD from my life as in no more crying, no more picking up the phone wanting to text or call, no more sitting around thinking about what i can do to make things better. NOTHING. there's no objections on my part about it... and i'm sure none on his since he could give a fuck less about anyone but himself. of course i think about him all the time cuz its not like i can just erase him out of my mind.... even though i'm trying. i've had nooo desire to speak to him and i honestly have nothing to say because though we had alot of amazing memories together and he was the only person that made me happy.... thats not who he is now and the person he is now makes me absolutely sick to my stomach. he's a scumbag (which is what he is named in my phone now) and that's the bottom line. his friends have rubbed off on him in the worst way possible and he doesn't seem to mind. so hey my motto is if you don't care, why should i? anyhow my hearts set on someone else...for now. we had a little somethin going on a couple months ago but it died off because of my desire to be with who is now known as scumbag. but since thats over might as well be around someone thats always happy to see me and doesn't put me in the worst mood ever. besides. i liked him WAAAAAAYY before (as in 8th grade) scumbag was even an image in my mind. he's gonna be home all weekend and we have dinner plans and such so we shall see where that takes us ;) anyway. that's all thats on my mind for now.... by the way. it's safe to say that this is the happiest i've felt in months. guess i just had to get rid of the bad seed now the flower can grow.

You Know You Love Me,
`K* NaTaSHa

4.08.2009

"But I can't Even Fight It, you make me so weak"

Okay So Obviously by the name of the Blog I'm on some lovey dovey type bull shit.
Let me just jot the shit I have on my mind real quick before my thoughts are interrupted by my father who's on his way to come get me and biffington.....

One Issue that I would like to address is an issue that I kind of addressed before, but clearly have yet to make myself clear to the oblivious ones. So here it goes... Short and Simple...

** IF I'M NOT MEETING YOU HALF WAY THAN GET OFF ME **
It's just that simple... I know what I want and I'm SICK and TIRED of people telling me WHAT I want - If i'm not putting in that 100 to get to you than its real obvious that I'm not as into you or I just don't care. Don't be offended because guys definitely play this same game so why the hell can't a girl?.... No point AT ALL to tell me that "I'm frontin" because I'm not... I'm just uninterested.


* If I don't call you, than I'm NOT interested


* If I avoid chillin' with you than I'm NOT interested


* If I ignore you all the time, guess what... NOT interested!


I know what I want and I like what I want..





So onto what i like :-) lol



soo there's this guy... lol that I'm into... been into him for a minute, don't know if he's feelin' me the same, but sooner or later i'm gonna find out.... --- The End -- lmao... Song of the Day kids: Must Be Love by Cassie... Shit goes hard
REAL recognize REAL and some of yall ain't looking familiar...

Lady Di.


4.07.2009

The Male is the Head, but the Woman is the NECK

* Think About The Significance in the Title of my Blog *
Read it and UNDERSTAND what I'm saying......

Today, there's no real introduction lets get down with the get down.
Here's my thought of the day:

Of all guys i've talked to i've never been told what to do and who to talk to. I'd be damned if I let that one happen. Then i come here & someone really had the audacity to tell me that i can't talk to anyone else and blahze blah. You're not my boyfriend, so who the hell are you? I'm writing about this now because it just crossed my mind of shit that really irks a nerve. I barely listen to my parents what in your right mind would make you think I would listen to you. Fuck all that "male dominating" bull shit...... It's 2009 baby, times are CHANGING. I find it absolutely ridiculous that people have the mentality that you keep "shorty" at home, but can go with your boys and have a grand old time, lmao.. get the f--- outta here.... It's just annoying to really have someone tell you what to do, I hate being bossed around let along by someone that has no great significance in my life. You're wasting your time and my time with all that "don't do this, don't do that" b.s . . . . chill out & let me breathe...........Thank you...

Subject matter 2 that gets on my nerves
is this statement & excuse my language, but i say it how I hear it
"Pussy has no face" --------- Are you kidding me?
Fellas. I'm gonna need for you to start setting some standards for yourselves and stop having sex with every girl --- you are NOT lil wayne, you can't do it and i'm sure Weezy doesn't do it either. hm. Stop messing with every girl just because she throws herself at you. Just because she does it doesn't mean that she's giving you anything... she could just be flirting... I'm not telling y'all to be shallow, but there's no reason why you should be loose with your shit. STDs and other sexually trasmitted diseases DO exist still... Smh ... I can't even begin to express how annoying it is to see these dudes messing with every girl no matter how ugly, pretty, fat, skinny, or thicke she is. SET SOME STANDARDS FOR YOURSELVES. Just like some girls have standards for themselves, so should you... point blank period....


Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't lookin' familiar out there....
Lady Di.
Song of the Day: Every Girl - Lil Wayne

4.06.2009

Take It Easy.

Let me start off by stating that this weekend was definitely poppin!
Thursday did something light with the girls & my fellas, me and my soulie took over Manhattan on Friday night, and Saturday took over New York once again. . . It was definitely an interesting weekend had. . . But moving on to business....

I can't stand persistent dudes. Oh man. It irks me to the fullest to have a person on my back so much. It's just so annoying to have to tell someone that you're really not feelin' them after you told them that same thing 2 times before. If you asked me yesterday what makes you think tomorrow is going to be something different? It's mind boggling to me that some dudes just don't get it. Than you have the dude that you haven't spoken to you in days or weeks and they still hittin' you up as if you guys really still talk?.... lmao.. once again.. I'm Mind Boggled!!!!!!! Just relax and if a girl is interested in you she'll meet you the other 50 that you trynna put in. There's no reason why any dude or even girl should have to put 100% effort in trynna bag someone up when they clearly are just not interested. I don't know that's just me. . . . . Anyway, I'm in the library.. Just wanted to jot that down real quick, Goodnight & of course I leave you with my song of the day : Too Grown For That (Remix) - Tamia featuring Jim Jones


Real Recognize Real - & some of y'all ain't looking familiar.
Lady Di

4.03.2009

"The tragedy of machismo is that a man is never quite man enough."

Okay so i had an extremely drama filled week that i honestly could have gone without. It brought out feelings of anger and hate that i never knew i even had inside of me. Someone I was speaking so highly of and I loved so much showed me a side i never knew existed. With that being said... this one is dedicated to all the males out there.......

Don't get me wrong, I like being single no strings and serious emotions attached you can go and come as you please without having to answer to anyone or worry about how they may feel. ( this is probably going to be jumbled thoughts because so much is going on in my head. so bare with me..) But because i'm single does that make it okay for me to run around having sex with every person that looks my way and smiles? absolutely not. thats dirty. So what i'm trying to figure out is why is it that guys think its okay to stick their manhood into any female that gives them five minutes of their time? I recently heard someone refer to themself as a ladies man and i laughed really hard because this male trys sooo hard to get peoples attention and when they do give him attention he takes it and runs with it. he was clearly fishing for attention from females so idk how that makes him a ladies man because he's not getting the attention from females without trying. so pathetic. but recently found out alot of things about someone i used to date and it honestly makes me sick to my stomach. leaving clubs with strange females and having sex with them? meeting girls off the internet and having sex with them? having relations with the same girl your best friend did? so disgusting. makes me feel like an idiot because i date such a scumbag that for all i know could have been doing all these things behind my back. not that i'd feel bad because he wasn't the only person i was seeing.... ha anywhooo. all in all what i'm curious to know is why is it that guys think its okay to have sex with a bunch of different females, especially ones they just met. its not cute in any way shape or form. i don't wanna sound like i'm bashing men -- i'm not because it takes two to tango. Females in 2009....... i don't even know what to say they're just wildin out and acting like straight up sluts. i mean i've had my share of oops maybe i shouldn't have done that moments but NOT like these broads nowadays. disgustingggggg! i can't even begin to wrap my brain around why these ladies are doing this to themselves. it is their fault that these guys feel they can do whatever they want and add multiple notches under their belt. some people are a lost cause but all i can say is i do not tolerate sleaze balls, man whores, scum bags, sluts, or people that have sex with so many people their chance of having an std are higher than acquiring the common cold.... speaking of STDs..... lmfaoo NA let me not go in right now because i'd def start throwing names out and feelings would get hurt or i'd get called a "hater" hahahah PATHETIC!!!!!!!!!!

oh... and since we're on the topic of males. let me touch on this real quick cuz i can go on for dayssss about this topic because i been hearing it waaay tooo much for my liking. "Grown Ass Man". Being over the age of 18 or 21 (whatever your preference) does not make you as "Grown Ass Man" --- it makes you an adult. To me - a "Grown Ass Man" is someone like my father. Working a full time job, can cook, clean, and dress himself. Owns a nice house and paid for all the furnishings himself. Can pay ALL his bills on time. Can afford multiple thousand dollar vacations a year. Can buy out a bar if he wanted to. NOW NOW NOW. YOU ARE NOT A "GROWN ASS MAN" If you don't have a job, you still live with your mama, your car can hardly get you across the state of new jersey, your boys and/or your girl pays your way or pays half everytime you go out, you have to return clothes to the store you bought last night just so you can afford an outfit for tonight. You over drew your bank account and you don't even have enough money to pay the over draw fee..... oh man let me stop because I can go on for DAYSSSSS. Till the day I move out of my parents house and i have myself a full time job i will not consider myself to be grown - i am an adult that has responsibilites in life, but i am not grown. I still heavily rely on my parents for things and I'm not afraid to say it. Don't try to get big with me and tell me you're a "Grown Ass Man" cuz i'll cool ya ass down if you think you hot shit.....

With that all being said -- its time to get dressed and hit the mall for a bangin dress for a night in the cityy with my favorite people in the world. I'll be back Sunday to tell all about it... smooches!

You Know You Love Me!
`K*nAtASHa

Scandalous Hoe University

Biffington and I killed it with the stanky leg last night, lmao. We were definitely going in with that shit. . It's always fun though when I'm with my peoples (Alexa, Yan, Eb, Dom, and Daniel) because we just don't give a fuck. But anyway, the title of this blog is credited to Dominic..He gave me the idea -- so shout outs to you. On to more important business..................


This is A Public Service Announcement:

Let me tell you something about these girls now a days. Now I've done a lot of growing as a person and have learned that I could get along with pretty much anybody that I just give the time or day to. I don't have to be your best friend or your friend, but I'm pretty easy going. However, there are particular girls that I really can't stand and/or deal with and that's loosey gooseys. I stepped into a whore brothel and was just taken back at the shit that I saw. Girls have NO shame now a days it's crazy. Hoes with boyfriends messing with every dude and their friends, hoes giving the "HEADIE WOP" to numerous amounts of dudes in one day. Like it that really sanitary? And did you ever stop to think about how you have just portrayed yourself or do you know and just not care? It's sad that girls do this kind of shit for attention. Well... you definitely got it. ::SmFh::.. no morals, no standards --- just quick to get yours and call it a day... and there's absolutely nothing wrong with it, but handle your shit with CLASS & stop leaving your shit out in the open for people to see... You're just making yourself look even trashier than you all ready are. True Story.. I have so much shit to say right now, but I can't even begin to formulate my words except this is why I don't run with many girls. They'll give me a bad name and trust me people have all ready tried to run loosely with my name and i'll be damned if any dusty ass girls are gonna bring me down with them. lmao... Anyway, Anonymous says " 95% of the girls on this campus are hoes" lmao. and well.............. it is what it is............ You can be a hoe if that's your prerogative, but when people run around with your name you really can't say shit about it. Think about it.. Moving On to something a little lighter....

Dom says "Light skin dudes on tv are starting to really embarrass and give other light skin dudes a bad rap. Q (making the band)...... chill the fuck out and stop crying over everything. He wildin' out way too much for nothing and he's starting to make light skin dudes look like punks. ohhh andddd Blue from G's to Gents.... a little too emotional too" ---


And..... Now for the INFAMOUS song of the Day.....
Mr.Vegas --- She's a Hoe * Listen to it and Love it Like I do *




Real Recognize Real * & some of y'all ain't looking familiar out there...
Lady Di.

4.01.2009

"I own the Swagger Market and you, you just a bag boy"

Not much to say today, but I never understood why today was called April Fools day... How come it's not the first of any other month... why april?... I mean I really don't care, but just a question that popped into my head as I hear and watch people play pranks on everyne else.... Why are you really doing that? As if you don't play jokes on people any other day... Why make a special day for it?.... ahh * whatever. Anyway, that's all for today --- I think unless something spectacular crosses my mind and I decide to rant about it --- Until then, I leave you with my song of the day.. Uptown by Drake featuring Bun B and Weezy. * Listen to it and Love it like I do.


Real Recognize Real and some of y'all aint looking familiar...
Lady Di

p.s --- Real World Reunion comes on 2night... maybe you'll see me and kandyce on tv! ;-)