Are you a Hater?

Currently: K* natash & I are in the midst of getting this bad boy blog up & running again because we've definitely been slacking on our blog game. A lot has definitely changed, but things seem to be getting better in certain aspects.

Anyway, one thing that I seem to notice A LOT is people have a tendency to throw out the word "hater" constantly for no reason. Everyone has a tendency to think someone is hating on them, but why? What have you done that makes people hate on you? That word is thrown around too loosely for my liking and quite frankly to clear this shit up for some of you people that swear everyone "hatin" on you... did it ever occur to you that maybe you're just NOT liked? There's a difference. People may not like you for many reasons, it doesn't mean they are hating on you it just simply means you didn't rub them the right way & they dislike you for the things you do (mostly negative things). However, if you fall under the category of a person that everyone seems to like & then that one person from a distance scolds you for NO REASON. Congratulations, you have an "up and coming" hater. They never exchanged words with you, you probably don't even know who they are, but for whatever reason - they don't like you for many reasons that people probably WOULD like you for. Prepare for the slandering of your name & constant garbage that comes out of their mouth. That's what "Haters" do best. Not to mention Haters are VERY good at convincing people that they aren't haters. They'll give out all these fake ass reason why they don't like Person A... Person A will not have ANY recollection of the FALSE stories that the "hater" has made up. Congratulations, Hater... You have just become a CERTIFIED HATER & a Liar at that. Give yourself a pat on the back!

anyway, with that said... you can't assume people hate on you because they don't like you.. chances are you did something that turned them off causing them to dislike you NOT hate on you.


Bitchassness is in the Air!

It's definitely been a minute since I've written on here, but getting this site back up is definitely in progress. So let's just get straight to the point.... There's some BITCHASSNESS I need to speak about... General Statements & if you take offense to either topic then maybe you're guilty....

1. Any girl that has the audacity to talk about other people & still be mad because they get talked about deserves to get smacked the fuck down. It's mind boggling that females can be so petty. Someone talks about them, they wild out -- but yet they doing the SAME thing to another group of females. Who gave you permission to do run your mouth loosely? Did you think that you do not deserve the same thing in return? It's called Karma, ladies. If you don't want people talking about you then keep your BEAKS closed. Don't give people a reason to talk about you either. You set yourself up for shit like that. Personally, i could care less & so should you. Who cares if people talk about you... let the haters hate... it's just that SIMPLE.... If you're mad about it then it's hitting a soft spot..... Why? Only thing I give anyone reason to be upset... if people are slandering your name with false rumors (ex. she messed with "so&so") <<< and its not true. those are false rumors that need to be addressed. Other petty shit like "that girl & her friends are ugly" ---- WHO CARES!?!?!?!!?. that's someone elses opinion of you. I sure as hell don't give a fuck. it's not that deep. stop looking for someone to "pop off" on & just live your life. Ladies, we all have a "tough" side.... ::applauds:: lets not get carried away & start acting like thugs ready to fight someone for some bull shit. Give me a break. Just sit back relax and breathe. Go get your hair done. Treat yourself to a mani/pedi & shut the hell up.

2. This is a special one to my "good guys" ... You get props for never wanting to cheat or play a girl & you get hella props for wanting to "give them the world," but what you DON'T get props for is all that crying & complaining your doing. And you gets NO LOVE if you're letting girls walk all over you. Personally, that whole nice guy movement is lame. Don't get me wrong... I don't want ANY nigga to beat my ass or disrespect me, but if I can't feel safe around your kind ass then what the fuck am I with you for? I just want someone thats a no bull shit kinda guy. He rides for his girl, but has a mean swagger & don't take shit from nobody. All that emotion isn't going to get you anywhere. It's just that SIMPLE. Don't make things more complicated then they should be. And please don't try to tell some girl that you know whats best for her. If its you... you may be wrong... don't play yourself... & don't try to force yourself on her either... you're liable to get your feelings hurt or fucked with. Be a man about your shit. it's 2009. they don't make females the same.

Real Recognize Real & Some of Y'all ain't looking familiar....


Same Shit - Different Day. HONESTLYYYYY!

Hellooooo Worlddd =] its been a longgggg time since I been on here I kept telling myself that I was going to come back on and start releasing some tension but I kept postponing because I wanted to change the page around a bit before I started to do so. BUT this simply can't wait bc I need to get some bullshit off my chest,excuse me if it doesn't make much sense.. i'm just venting right now but ..... ahem. OKAY. If there is one thing I hate more than anything is dumb bitches who like to stick their nose in other peoples business .. I hate girls who are unloyal to their friends and are so damned on getting attention they'll leave people they're cool with just so they can get their ego stroked. It don't make no sense. THAT SOUND STUPID TO MEEEEEE!! ugh but not only that they pretty much turn on you and have some slick shit to say about what you do when it doesn't have shit to do with her. I'm truly not the confrontational type but I have a big ass mouth that I have no problem using. So I'm going to take the time out to shout a special fuck you out to one of the most fake femalesI know. Not only is she fake but she's an attention whore that is thriving off of this bum nigga thats willing to smile at her and try to play nice with her simply to be spiteful... little does she know because she is oh so simple minded. She's become buddy buddy with one of the most manipulative dudes i've come across in life. So honesly since she's claiming him I wish her luck because just like he's played everybody else and popped shit about EVERYONE else he surrounds himself with. She'll be just another victim. Hahaha Trust me I know exactly what I'm talking about. But I'm not gonna go into detail because I have class in 5 hours. I know I'm being rather vague but I willtell a more in depth story later. I have to go in on that same bum nigga that started this whole situation up in the first place. [btw everytime I start talkin about dudes being broke and not having any real assets in life i think about that nicki minaj joint handstand "I can't stand bums, somethin bout his money make a nigga handsome" bahahaha] There's so much to be said about that silly son of a bitch... btw who still gets gassed that girls wanna have sex with them? oh yes dudes that get no pussy. Smfh. STOP LYIN ON YOUR DICK HOMEBOY MAN UPPPPP!!!But ummmm.. I really need to go now bc I'm just gonna keep going on and on soooo yea I'm sure some shit is gonna pop off sometime today so an update will be posted this evening if I don't end up getting arrested for doing some drastastic ish k smooches! <3


This "Chill" Movement.

So Last night was CRAZY & that's all I'm going to say about THAT one.

On to my topic of the day..... The definition of "CHILL" seems to be expanding these days. Chill to me means to "hang out" or "sit back & relax"... There really should be no other meaning for it, but these days dudes are taking it to a different level. Chill apparently means in the nicest way possible... "lets bone" or "can i smash?"... Deny it all you want fellas but I've been victimized with that whole "lets smash" bid. Face it... its a Real recognize Real movement... if you can't get on that level, than you won't ever be on my level.. Point Blank PERIOD! Nothing left to discuss. Just keep it 100. You wanna hit than let me know.. I respect honesty so much better than that foolish G that every dude seems to say. It's all the same thing, which is the absolute worst thing i've ever come across. It's an epidemic & it's time for it to stop. But anyway.. enough with all this writing.... I'm about to hop my ass in the shower again... and get ready to see what the night has in store for me.......... Real Recognize Real and some of yall aint looking familiar out there...

Lady Di


Face It.... He's Just NOT that Into You....

It's been quite a while since I've posted... I have to say I've just been HELLA busy.. This past weekend went acceptionally well minus the fact that i got sick Saturday... smfh... Schools almost over.... yay & ney.... :-\... home for the whole summer? I'll pray i don't die... anyway... some short exerpts from "Hes Just Not that Into You" ... I'm sure girls can relate... and GUYS can too.. stop acting like a hard ass for once & admit when you're being bamboozled.... "Ladies is Pimps too"... lol.. Enjoy... Real Recognize Real & some of yall ain't looking familiar...
*Lady Di.

Chapter 1He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Asking You Out
because if he likes you, trust me, he will ask you out men find it very satisfying to get what they want if a guy truly likes you, but for personal reasons, needs to take things slow, he will let you know immediately. He won't keep you guessing because he'll want to make sure you don't get frustrated and go away. don't let him trick you into asking you out men, for most part, like to pursue women an excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship." you are good enough to be asked out.

Chapter 2He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Calling You
men know how to use the phone when you like someone, they just don't slip your mind you know they mean it when they actually do what they said they were going to do men are never too busy to get what they want if he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind if he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs you deserve a fucking phone call

Chapter 3He's Just Not That Into You Is He's Not Dating You
"hanging out" is not datinga man who's really into you is going to want you all to himselfbetter than nothing is not good enough for you!if you don't know where the relationship is going, it's okay to pull over and askthere's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone he's your boyfriend

Chapter 4He's Just Not That Into You If He's Not Having Sex With You
when men like you, they want to touch you, alwaysif a man is not trying to undress you, he's just not that into youif you're tempted to spend countless nights just cuddling with someone, buy a puppythere's someone out there that does want to have sex with you, hot stuff

Chapter 5He's Just Not That Into You If He's Having Sex With Someone Else
there's never going to be a good excuse for cheatingcheating doesn't just "happen". It was planned and executed with the full knowledge that it could end your relationshipcheating is a complete betrayal of trust100% of guys polled said that they have never accidentally slept with anyone
Chapter 6He's Just Not That Into You If He Only Wants To See You When He's Drunk
if he likes you, he'll want to see you when his judgment isn't impairedit doesn't count unless he says it when he's soberdrinking and drug use are not a path to one's innermost feelingsyou deserve to be with someone who doesn't have to get loaded to be around you

Chapter 7He's Just Not That Into You If He Doesn't Want To Marry You
love cures commitment phobiadon't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for youif you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?there's a guy out there who wants to marry you

Chapter 8He's Just Not That Into You If He's Breaking Up With You
"i don't want to go out with you" means just thatalways be classy. Never be crazya breakup is a definitive action, not a democratic onebreakup sex means you're still broken upcut him off. Let him miss you

Chapter 9He's Just Not That Into You If He's Disapppeared On You
sometimes you have to get closure all by yourselfthere's nothing worse than hving no answer. No answer is your answer.don't give him the chance to reject you againthere's no mystery-he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you

Chapter 10He's Just Not That Into You If He's Married (And Other Insane Variations Of Being Unavailable)
if you're not able to love fully, it's not really lovehe's marriedunless he's all yours, he's still hersdon't be that girl

Chapter 11He's Just Not That Into You If He's A Selfish Jerk, A Bully, Or A Really Big Freak
if you really love someone, you want to do things to make that person happyyou are the catchlife is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with

SONG of the Day: Boyfriend # 2 - Pleasure P, download it, listen, & love it like I do...


you know your mouth's a cage for your tongue if you just close your teeth!


Let me edit this real quick just cause this is a general statement for anyone.
point blank period, anyone who got my name or any of my friends name in their mouth can seriously choke on their words because karmas a bitch.
i love people who hot shit up for no apparent reason & when you go to their face they tell you "nah yo i neva said that forreal" ---- as previously stated before I HATE liars. so do yourselves a favor if your gonna lie do it correctly.... it's crazy how people make themselves look bigger by simply passing out false rumors because they wanna make themselves look good.
As also stated previously, i know what i want & if i'm not going after you ---- it's for a reason.......... IM NOT INTERESTED? .....

seriously bump all the mess.
dramas overrated anyway.
im too grown for it.
real recognize real is what it comes down to.. and some of yall aint lookin familiar out there...
signing off,
lady d.

I Feel On Top Of The World

okay so i clearly have an issue with updating this blog. takes me a week to get on here mainly cuz i have class monday to wednesday like non stop and when i do have time i sleep in between lol. doesn't matter i'm here now.... heres an update since friday. oh gosh. got dressed up and spent the night in the city with my favorite people in the worldddddd! got RETARDED off the goose (grey goose is my enemy it gives me THE WORST hangovers so idk why i drank so much of it.. ohh prob cuz it was all free lmao) had alot of fun, stayed in bed allll day saturday and dragged myselff around for the rest of the night. sunday went to church and went out the breakfast with the fam - it was a really nice day so i was in a good mood. monday, tuesday, wednesday were school so nothing interesting with that really. its thursday and idk what i'm gonna be doing yet i'm sure something though. tmrw everyone is finally getting together and andy's having a party at his house so that should be alot of fun.... this is quite boring probably because for the first time in a while i don't have drama in my life. the one person that i was always upset about and complaining about has officially been DELETEDDDDDDDDD from my life as in no more crying, no more picking up the phone wanting to text or call, no more sitting around thinking about what i can do to make things better. NOTHING. there's no objections on my part about it... and i'm sure none on his since he could give a fuck less about anyone but himself. of course i think about him all the time cuz its not like i can just erase him out of my mind.... even though i'm trying. i've had nooo desire to speak to him and i honestly have nothing to say because though we had alot of amazing memories together and he was the only person that made me happy.... thats not who he is now and the person he is now makes me absolutely sick to my stomach. he's a scumbag (which is what he is named in my phone now) and that's the bottom line. his friends have rubbed off on him in the worst way possible and he doesn't seem to mind. so hey my motto is if you don't care, why should i? anyhow my hearts set on someone else...for now. we had a little somethin going on a couple months ago but it died off because of my desire to be with who is now known as scumbag. but since thats over might as well be around someone thats always happy to see me and doesn't put me in the worst mood ever. besides. i liked him WAAAAAAYY before (as in 8th grade) scumbag was even an image in my mind. he's gonna be home all weekend and we have dinner plans and such so we shall see where that takes us ;) anyway. that's all thats on my mind for now.... by the way. it's safe to say that this is the happiest i've felt in months. guess i just had to get rid of the bad seed now the flower can grow.

You Know You Love Me,
`K* NaTaSHa