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3.31.2009

"You was my hoe tonight And I got a nigga waitin up for me at home, so Goodnight..."

Today I feel like doing a little airing out right now because I'm feeling some type of way and anyone who knows me or anything about me will know exactly who or what I'm talking about. So HERE IT GOES allow me to get on my ruthless and obnoxious shit for a minute.... One of the things that I really can't stand are BITCH NIGGAS. Now you walk around here with your head to the sky and your nose up at everyone like YOU ARE THAT NIGGA!! and personally I think your a little on the crazy side if you really think you are just that dude. Sweetheart, I lowered my standards to talk to you... I've met and talked to flyer dudes than you...pause... you're NOT even fly!!!! lmao.. soo FYI it's nothing to me if we do stop talking. I could actually care less... cause as far as I'm concerned I don't hit you up or find any way possible to contact you... TRUTHFULLY if you weren't always on my ass about speaking to you I WOULD PROBABLY WALK RIGHT PAST YOU. oh wait............... I do walk right past you... don't i? like you ain't shit don't i? ohh yeahhhh... OKAY... You walk around like the shit you do really affects me or is really like a secret? lmao... Sweetheart, your shit is ALL out in the open...So why lie? Didn't you get the memo that I know and find out everything? Smh at you for thinking that you were actually smarter than me. It's over for that one.

-- Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't looking familiar out here....

* Lady Di.

(Song of the Day: Computer Love by Fab) -- YES for the 2ndtime!!!




3.30.2009

Honey Just Jumped Ship And Left The Captain ...

waaaatuppp?! wassss happeninn?! gonna make this a fairly brief post cuz i wanna hop in the showerrr. OKAY.weekend recap -- thursday: as i said before i went to chris' house with the girls had a good time downing shots & beers for no good reason haha. friday: spent the night with my boyfriend aka dionna lol got mad free samples offline and laid around my house like bums just cuz we felt like it. saturday: went up to seton hall and saw my favoritess had a prettty good time can't complain. sunday: got my hair done FINALLYYYY. aaaaand thats about it...

burning question of the day ... WHY HAVE I BEEN GETTING MY LIFE SHITTED ON MY MALES LATELY ?! its making me so angry lololololol seems like everyone just thinks they can do whatever they want and not expect me to have an attitude. ughhhh! havent talked to one dude in hmmm three weeks cuz he just fell off the face of the planet bothered be at first but im not stressin it anymore. another one calls me and i ALWAYSSSS seem to miss his calls and when i call back he doesnt answer then i dont get another call for like two days so its like phone tag. anotherrr i was kinda hooked up with-- but we talked via facebook & text until we finally hung out the other day and he works like nobodys business so i never talk to him so its almost like hes not in my life. can't catch a break man but its whatever cuz my days of chasing people around are ovaaaa. on a lighter note a special someone has made a quick reappearance in my life...............via text message? lmfaoo soo sad thats what its come down to but its better than nothing because even though everytime we talk it ends in mild bloodshed and hurtful words--- i still love him more than anythingg and he makes me super duper happyyy!

ummmmmm class was wackkk today as usual and i def failed my quiz so thats a bummer. but im super excited for this week because it holds alot of potential to make me smile alot cuz i'm getting to spend time with the people that make me more than happyyyyy. yay. but thats about it for now. i have some quick studying to do. then pistachio ice cream & hoursss worth of tv shows on dvr have my name written alllllllllllll over it =D. farewell alll. you know you love me
-- k* NatAsHaaa

"My Privacy about the ONLY thing I want back"

I don't think I really need to do an introduction because y'all all ready know what it is so let me make this real quick.... First of all like I said I was gonna talk about these little raging hoes in the making. Little girls dance like they grown... Okay... It's all fun and games until something happens.... And truthfully it's not even the girl's fault... It's their weak ass parents that don't take initiative to correct their children when they're being a little to raunchy and TRASH like... I'll be damned if my little cousin goes around dancing like she ain't got no common sense to put that shit on you tube... that's a real joke.. Stop teaching your daughters how to be certified hoes and stop amping them up and saying what they're doing is cute... Because watching that fuckery on you tube... is dis-gus-ting. ANYWAY moving right along.....

I just wanted to take my time out to say something. One thing I can't stand is my business being put out for the public eye to see or hear. If you're running loosely with my name like a headless chicken I suggest you chill out because best believe Karma is a bitch & I can be real malicious. I'm not sending out any threats or anything, but this is just what it is. I hate HATE HATEE liars especially bad liars. All your shit is blatantly out in the open and you still deny? That's crazy to me, that has to be some kind of joke. And the funniest part about people that lie is that they don't even realize that they're lying anymore. They are immune to it like its malaria.... They have convinced themselves that they aren't lying.... and personally..... that's straight up SICK!!!! And what kills me the most is that I'm a pretty low key girl. I'm not in everything and I keep my circle REAL tight just because you can never really be too careful with the people you surround yourself with.... So the fact that I have to hear my name really mind boggles me... Just SHUT UPP!!!!!!! --- And here's a little tip: When you blame someone for something you know they didn't do... You're blaming them because you're guilty for doing it.... And with that said....
Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't looking familiar out there...
-Lady Di.

3.29.2009

Scatter brained... Last night, Karma, What Provokes you? --- Fast Asses to be continued....

I did some G *ish last night, but that's definitely not gonna make it on this bloggington so I guess your mind can wander if you really care about what I did.... Anyhow, the soulie made a reappearance into my life which I'm really happy about because I missed her ohh so dearly.... I haven't seen her since the Real World Reunion... (ohh. aha. Watch out for us as we make our t.v appearance in the audience! lol) Okay... down to the nitty gritty....

Biffington and I were just talking and she said "I wonder what provokes people to do the things that they do.." She told me I should write about it and hopefully get some responses soo... Here I am writing about it ---- Biffington and Isha both said that people do things that they do just because they know they can, for revenge, love, or pleasure, and even to feel a sense of power (control).. And I definitely do agree that people will do some silly ass shit for love, as well as to feel like they have the upper hand... I for one am a firm believer of Karma, therefore, if I can throw something in your face and get away with it best believe I will... no question about it... That's just how it goes.... Speaking of Karma.... lmao... Let me just touch on that real quick... Anyone who doesn't believe in it should reanalyze it. Everything happens for a reason, yes... however... if you look into detail about certain things that have happened sometimes it could be seen as karma... Karma comes to bad people or people that think they have the upper hand, but indeed they do not and shit just hit the fan...(i don't know if that made sense, but if it didn't rock with me for a minute)... "what goes around comes around" and if you running around here like your on top of the world you will fall and bust your ass.... and you know what?.. I'll laugh.. stop thinkin' you run shit and karma will be gentle on your soul.. lol... i think i'm rambling right now because i have s0 much to say, but my thoughts are scattered... Soo im gonna start to conclude!!! --- song of my day -- Computer Love by Fabolous -- Get on it..
and I wanted to leave you guys with something that makes me really angry..
These little girls these days are getting way to fresh for me.... And the worst part is their parents allow this stuff to happen!!! HELLOOOOOOOOO wake the hell up... you're about to turn your child into a raging floozy... SMH! It's disgraceful. --- to be continued about these fast ass chickadees... thats my next topic... it's over... i'm going in!!! Stay tuned!




Real Recognize Real and some of y'all aint lookin' familiar out there....
-Lady Di.

3.28.2009

Give me the keys and I WILL drive.... WTF?

One thing that has actually crossed my mind is how some people could actually come to my face and tell me that things have to go my way all the time and blah blah blah meanwhile it's really me taking some initiative to do something --- that's what happens when you give someone the wheel, you're putting them in charge & if that's not how you wanted shit to be then take some initiative yourself and make moves because i'll go with the flow and plan as long as it makes sense. However, I hate that people will come to my face and tell me a whole bunch of bull shit about how I have to be the boss when in ACTUALITY each and every time the "keys and the car" are given to me.. so what did you expect me to do with it? Anyway, shit like that makes me mad because sometimes people try to make you look bad and try to make it seem like you're the bad guy when once again in ACTUALITY you're playing the role and position that people have basically handed you. If they didn't want you to be the driver than they should have made themselves the driver and put your ass in the passenger side or back seat. It's not that serious. I have no problem riding shottie once in a while. That's the stuff that actually pisses me off. Don't try to make me look or feel bad just because you can't make your mind up about the way you want shit to go. Oh oh oh! and another thing that annoys the shit out of me is when you're set on doing something and your plans get pushed totally to the bottom of the tank... Are you kidding me? I'm grown I could have done all this shit BY MYSELF... why? because in case you didn't know, I'm grown!!! But it is what it is.... My point is just a general statement.... If you find yourself constantly letting someone else drive the car and you feel like they always think they run shit................. WELL than let's THINK about that for a minute............ You're clearly letting them have the upperhand if your trying to follow what they're doing. Don't try to make them look bad because you're the one that does it all the time ain't no point in trying to make it seem like that person gave themselves the leadership role..... blame yourself for giving them the car, the keys, and the wheel. You put them in that position and put yourself in the passenger side. ---- and with that said...... REAL RECOGNIZE REAL ... some of yall ain't lookin familiar out there


-Lady Di.

SONG OF THE DAY: INTUITION BY KERI HILSON
(LISTEN TO IT. ALL TRUTH IS TIED TO IT.)

3.27.2009

Dust Yourself Off And Try Again

Hey hey hey. I was on a super brief hiatus but i'm back. I am currently out of a laptop so it's kinda hard to keep up. I haven't been up to much lately went out last night to Chris' house with my girls and had fun catching up with everyone since we never get to see one another. That's about it... but down to the nitty gritty of what's on my mind.
Anyone that knows me, knows I am a sucker for love. Yeah the whole addicted to kissing and hugging touching and rubbing type deal lol. I had it once upon a time ago and miss it dearlyyy. I only been in love once.. at least i think it was love.. hmm. Not going into details on that but needless to say things didn't quite work out the way I wanted it to. I messed up.....badly and I tried to right my wrongs but some people aren't as forgiving as I expected them to be. in the end LIFE GOES ON and i'm a better person now than I was a few months ago because I now have recognized my flaws and are slowly but surely working on them to impress the new mr. right ... whomever that may be. I've been dating around lately thinking it wouldn't be so hard to find a guy to hold me down and treat me like i'm supposed to be treated.........well as you all may know i was WRONG. I met some keepers but things didn't work out because they were so convinced i was living in the past which [i kind of am but i think i deserve ALOT of credit because i've moved 75 steps forward closer to 100 of erasing my past] and the rest just kind of feel off but for the most part...all I can say is wow. Some of these dudes either have more drama in their life than a 16 year old girl with 10 possible babies fathers or are straight up legit STALKERS. Jeeeeeeeeez. I'm 19 years old I never have and never will have a "man" keeping tabs on me all hours of the day by blowingggg up my phone, monitoring who I take pics with, who I go out with etc. Naaaa son none of that! I have a mother and father that do enough of it I don't need another person keeping tabs on me. I kind of have a bad habit of when i get turned off or i'm just plain uninterested I drop people like hot potatoes and NEVER answer their calls or texts. Maybe that's why they continue to call me cuz i haven't properly dismissed them but come on people lets be real : if i haven't answered you in more than a month WHY ARE YOU STILL CALLING ME?! i didn't answer a month ago and i'm not gonna answer now ughhhh. what have i done so wrong to meet these fools? But whatever that isn't gonna stop me from keeping my eyes wide for the next possible honey. Keri Hilson said it best in Knock You Down "sometimes love comes around and it knocks you down just get back up when it knocks you down" and that's exactly what i intend upon doing. don't know when i'll have the time to do so since i'm apparently the live in babysitter in this house. without a doubt everytime i want to go out and actually do something REALLY fun my parents have a million plans and shut me down when I tell them what's up for the night ughh. for instance one of my male friends just texted me and let me know that their having an event at Catch 22 in the city and i was welcome to come. Am I going? Of course not! I have a 13 year old boy to monitor. I just want my old life back where I can come and go as I please! I really need to get my shit together and pull straight A's this semester to raise my GPA so i can transfer out of community college ASAP cuzzzzz the partial parental lock is killin me majorly!!! All in all the moral of this entire scatter brained blog entry is dust yourself off and try again cuz i know i'm not the only one strugglin in some way or another. for me -- that applies heavily in the love department and the life department because both haven't been lookin too bright and shiny as of late. . . but that's all for now i'm starving so i'm about to make some poppin ass pasta [ yummm - that was for you di! lol] i'll probably be back on later since i'll be home doing NOTHINGGGGGGGG. [ thanks mommy & daddy ] -- later kids.
* You know you love me -k* NaTaSHA

To Get Respect .. You Gotta Give It *

Good Mornington. It's a little early so just bare with me for a minute as I get my thoughts together. . . Lets see - I'm going to keep it brief that last night I had a fun time with my friends, we haven't really partied like that together in a long time. --- Okay i'm done talking about that

One thing that I notice these days is the amount of respect guys have for females. It's shameful to say that these days they really don't respect women like they should. Some ladies portray themselves in a disgraceful manner and get treated like dirt. Other ladies portray themselves like they should and still get disrespected...... What's the reasoning behind all of this gentleman? Stop treating women like they are "smuts" and maybe all girls won't think that every guy is the exact same, which in fact I'm starting to believe is semi true until I meet someone that doesn't have the same mentality as every other guy. I mean don't get it twisted, I'm not really generalizing guys per-say.... BUT it is kind of weird that i've come across a good 3-6 good guys out of the whole male species.. The others are a little too blunt for my liking and don't get that twisted either I like straightfwd people, but there is a certain way you talk to people and saying "yoooo when you gon' let me smash" at least in MY view isn't going to get you anywhere...... lol in actuality I think I would actually laugh in the young man's face... stuff like that doesn't intrigue me.... My mother didn't raise no fool & i'm not going to walk around settling for some goon that has no manners, respect, or any quality even worth entertaining. That would be settling for less & girlss.......... everyone deserves a prince charming and when you get him make sure you hold on to him & don't take advantage of him.... Love him and show him the same respect as long as he's returning the same love and respect..... and girls... if your man or potential man... is a raggity ass dude not doing anything with his lfe calling you every name in the book.. I suggest y'all take 2 steps back & kick that nigga to the curb... It's over for that. Respect comes a long way and to get respect you gotta give it.... Anyway -- time to shower -- possibily blog later -- soo much to do & very little hours in the day to do it all. Sometimes I wish I was Superwoman!

* Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't looking familiar out here

Lady D.

3.25.2009

Condoms? Morning After Pills? Whats Goodington?







I didn't plan on blogging today, but I have some shit that's been on my mind since 10 AM this morning that I really feel needs to be put out there.This by no means is to really disrespect anyone or offend anyone it's just a simple observation that I made. Ladies, why are you all getting pregnant? I don't get it. Chicks are 16, 17, 18, 19, 20 having babies... I just don't understand. Most of you aren't ready to be moms and you know it so why are you waiting 4 months into pregnancy to get an abortion? Better yet. WHY get the abortion when you have other options like... using a condom, birth control, or morning after pill? I don't get it. Then you have the girls that wanna keep their babies, have them, and still party at the clubs like they don't have responsibilities at home. Sorry, but once you poppin' out kids those days should be over, unless of course it's a job like those people that promote parties. Anyway, than you have the young females that have sex after sex and get pregnant like 3 times and abort that poor child 3 fucking times. That's a joke right? What if your mother aborted your ass? Point being, Stop killing babies. I'm getting so heated right now because girls are acting real dumb these days. What the fuck do you have a brain for if you're not gonna use it? I'd rather you abort a baby that's barely developed even though I'm against it all together. It's crazy the things girls do and put themselves through & then expect people to feel sorry for them?.... ::shakes head:: not me. Anyway, i'm not bashing all pregnant girls and such --- a good friend of mine is my age with a beautiful daughter, who is MY goddaughter & I love the both of them very much... She's precious... My friend is also not shaking her ass in the club or wasting her time doing stupid shit. She's actually taking care of her responsibilty. Young mothers like that I respect so much and give them major props. The others on the otherhand, shame on you for only thinking about your damn selves and not making smart decisions. I understand times are hard and everyone has a reason for doing what they do, but be smart about it & certain problems wouldn't rise. I don't know that's just me.... Anyway, I'm in this weak ass Art History class... Signing Off ----
* Real Recognize Real & some of y'all ain't looking familiar *

- Lady D.

3.24.2009

Who's Real - Jadakiss & Swizz Beats


okay not only is that me.. lol BUT the quote says... "who are you to judge the life that i live? I know that I'm not perfect and I don't try to be but before you start pointing fingers make sure your hands are clean..." The quote pretty much speaks for itself, but i'm sick and tired of people putting their input somewhere that it's not needed.. for example i absolutely hate when people call someone out on something, but they're guilty for being the same way or acting the same.... JUST BECAUSE your shit's not exposed DOESN'T MEAN that you're not guilty for it.... You just haven't been aired out yet.... I Hate HATE HATE girls who call other girls a hoe.... meanwhile.......... you had sex with everyone and their daddys.... Just because you think people don't know your a fast ass floozy doesn't clear your name from being put in the "Hoe Category"... and can we stop calling people hoes and shit when you clearly have NO idea what their about or who their boning... No need to drag someone else's name in the mud just because your name spells out DIRTY!! I'm not pointing my fingers anywhere in particular.. (lol).. but it was just a thought that I had when I actually saw the quote... People in general are always judging or prejudging people (I must say i've been guilty of it a couple of times before) however.... that's why you get to know people... stop smiling in peoples faces and hating them behind their back... it doesn't make you a real ass person... it just makes you fake as hell.... I don't know... Correct me if I'm wrong I'm open for criticism, but truthfully.. I think I'm pretty clear & right about this shit... But anyway... I think I'm done for the day... If anything else decides to cross my mind - I'll probably add on to this shit..... WHO KNOWS?.... Biffington just walked in the room.. she's probably gonna yell at me for blogging... lmao.. ** Real Recognize Real & Some of y'all Ain't looking familiar Out there ** -- Signing off -- Lady D.


Thats biffington to the left & kandyce to the right...

Oh hey.. that's KanDi Again.. <3>

Hello World

welcome to the obnoxious world of kandyce and diandra! you could either get with it or get rolled ovaa. so this is your chance to exit.......... still here? good cuz i'm sure throughout this we'll be taking you for the ride of your life so get ready lol. like di said this is our first blog so its not so poppin yet cuz we honestly don't have the patience to sit here at 12 in the morning and try to figure it out right now - well at least i don't cuz i'm ohh soo tired and stillll have lots to do. wompers. we honestly are very nice girls but we are sometimes called "Mean Girls" probably because we don't stand for people trying act like they're somethin that their not and trying to make me feel like i'm inferior to them. my mother taught me better than that and she also taught me that i have a mouth and if i don't like something don't hesitate to open it.... with tact. the tactful part didn't stick so well cuz i tell it like it is when it is whether you like it or not. hence the fact i'm single and i have about five people i could truly call my friends. haha. but at least i know the few that i have will ride for me and die for me just as i am. anyway too much to do and no time. catch you tmrw - you know you love meee. K* nATaSHa

3.23.2009

Allow us to Introduce Ourselves

Oh..Hey thats us! KanDi or Kandyce and Diandra * This is clearly our FIRST blog and we're still trying to work out some kinks so be patient young ones. This first blog is really just to test everything out because we were definitely lost little souls trying to figure everything out. lol. At least we got the most important part downpacked? Anyway.... We are really nice people. Show us the same respect you want & they'll be no problems. We're not phony so we expect anyone and everyone around us to keep it 110% Otherwise... we'll put you in your place A-SAP.
Anyway, this isn't really a bashing first entry so I guess i'm done.... Kandyce will probably write some shit after me or whatever she wants.. maybe even take this one day and write a new one? lmaooo (sike na).. Anyway, going for a walk with the girl that didn't wanna be down with our blogg movement... * Byeeeeeeeee! *